Sacred Mothering Principles

Mothering doesn’t come with a manual, but we can create one along the way. These values inspire my mothering journey, and can apply to any caregiver role.

Mothering is sacred.

We are nurturing life; there is nothing more precious or valuable. Whether or not we embrace a particular religion or spiritual view, mothering pulls forth from us all that we are — and more. Mothering has the potential to teach us about the nature of spirit, that which is the basis life, in a way no other role can teach. I embrace my role.

Mothering is an invitation.

Each experience asks a valuable question. How am I choosing to be in this moment? Mothering calls us to discover and decide who we are, to heal as we choose what we bring forward from the past, to make the most of the present as we create the future. We have the opportunity to experience and live from our deepest nature — the peaceful basis of being which is always present, but often overlooked. I accept each invitation as it comes. I call myself forward.

The challenges of mothering are opportunities in disguise.

The moments we feel most challenged are also opportunities to dig deep and learn how to live what we value. The ups and downs of the mother-child relationship carry as much personal growth potential for mothers as they do for children. Even the worst challenges contain hidden opportunities for clarity, growth and deeper connection to life. Appreciation of all experience allows us to discover insights, wisdom and unconditional joy. I am curious about what I find frustrating and I discover opportunities in challenges.

Mothers nurture the tone of the home.

We see how this plays out in our lives. If we’re on, it’s flowing well. If we’re off, well, it’s likely that we’re not the only one. While we could fight the fact that we are leaders in our families, we can also find solace in our ability to learn how to influence those around us in the ways we choose. I courageously start with myself, consciously clarifying the ripple effect I have on everyone. I learn to lead by example.

Mothers hold the emotional space for the family.

We nurture either a closed and prohibitive or open and safe space to feel for our families. Denial doesn’t work. Neither does shaming, stuffing or shutting down. Honoring all emotions is necessary to experience true inner authenticity and wholeness. Emotions aren’t viewed as good or bad; they are regarded as signals from the spirit of truth at the base of our being, communicating important messages about what we need and value. As I am emotionally aware and responsible, I open the space for others to be the same. I nurture an environment of safety and trust through cultivating the safe space to feel.

Mothering opens us to the simple joy of being.

Simple joy may come through circumstances and it is also ever present, within us and our experiences — waiting to be discovered, acknowledged, and affirmed. As we acknowledge the basis, we experience our true power and influence as mothers to live from the sacred space of being. I affirm the peace, contentment, and appreciation of simply being alive in ways that are meaningful to me.

Motherhood is a process.

We have multiple, and sometimes repeated, opportunities for refinement. From the moment we are born mothers until we breathe our last breath, we are evolving. We learn from our experience, practice new skills and implement new ways of interacting – with ourselves, children and others. I am gentle with myself. I embrace the process.

Mothers nurture the world.

Mothers cultivate the space to grow and heal – themselves, their families, the world. We not only influence our families, but each other and everyone around us. I share what I discover, allowing it to also support others as I learn to embrace and enjoy mothering. I am a living example of my values.

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